Love & Hip-Hop or Love & Stupid

So, lets talk about the conversation between Emily and Chrissy. If you don't know Emily had a sit down with Chrissy to talk about the recent talk she had with Fabolous's former assistant Winter. Winter basically told her to go back with Fab and just deal with what he does. Let me address that one real quick. That was the worse advice anyone could give. No women should have to put up with the humiliation that Fab has put Emily through. To just out right be disrespectful like that, flaunting infidelities, it's not right and no woman should have to deal with that, whether their in the industry or not. So no Winter she should not get over it and go back to him.


Chrissy surprised me! During her conversation with Em, she basically told her as long as you don't feel it, see it, or hear it, your good. o_O 


Okay so your telling me that it's okay for me to be with a guy who is cheating on me as long as I don't see it happening, as long as he shows me enough love & affection to the point that I don't feel it happening, and as long as he keeps his sneaking around very low key to where the town doesn't know & I don't hear about it. Chrissy must have been sipping from the same crazy juice as Yandy & Kimbella. 


To be in a relationship like that, what are you telling the young girls who watch you every Monday night, what are you telling your daughters, what are you telling your sons. Not a positive message. Your not telling the guys out there that it's not okay to cheat and it's not okay to treat women like that. Your not telling the young girls who watch you and your daughters who look up to you to not take that kind of treatment, that your worth much more than that. 


Embrace being a strong independent women. I was always on Chrissy side but Yandy was right about one thing she makes her money, Chrissy sleeps with her money. Yandy shows that she has a job, Emily even has a job, Chrissy shows that she plays housewife and she backs Jim up in everything he does. My advice is never depend on a man, never be in that vulnerable situation where he holds that much power. It's okay to let guys do things for you or buy you a gift, what girls doesn't want to be treated like a princess. But be a independent princess. Stand on your own two feet while he chases every tail that goes by. When he's ready to settle down and if you still want to be with him then you can see what's there. But don't subject yourself to being in relationship where the man doesn't understand commitment and fidelity, it makes you look like a fool. 


But here is where I stop my rant. However, don't confuse my rant with it meaning women can't lean on men. Financial stability/support is a part of a relationship. I'm just saying if he left tomorrow would you be able to financially support yourself & your family? Also, I'm saying why promote men to do their dirt, just so you can remain his main & not his only. Ladies, don't settle for less, know what you want and go get it. Men do it so why not you.